The number of symmetric relations defined on the set $$\{1,2,3,4\}$$ which are not reflexive is _________.

Let $$\mathrm{A}=\{-4,-3,-2,0,1,3,4\}$$ and $$\mathrm{R}=\left\{(a, b) \in \mathrm{A} \times \mathrm{A}: b=|a|\right.$$ or $$\left.b^{2}=a+1\right\}$$ be a relation on $$\mathrm{A}$$. Then the minimum number of elements, that must be added to the relation $$\mathrm{R}$$ so that it becomes reflexive and symmetric, is __________